How To Heal A Broken Heart And Shattered Dreams?

Please give me your three most helpful suggestions on how to heal a broken heart and shattered dreams. I am 40 years old and not inexperienced, just broken up with the man of my dreams and would like your suggestions on how to get through this with a minimum of mental and emotional scaring. He was also my best friend and the one I talked to about everything so it has left a huge hole in my heart.

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Sex @ The Beach
Sex @ The Beach
50 lat temu

You just have the initial shock of being single… This stage will pass.

Spend time with yourself, get to know you better, go out and do things that you havent before. Go do things that you couldnt do before. Enjoy life.

People often come and go, but the person youre going to spend the most time with is you. So enjoy your own company

Fre$h like Fruit&tra
Fre$h like Fruit&tra
50 lat temu

Aww broken hearts can really stink. This will take some time, but it will heal, believe me. Talking it out with friends and family will definitely help, or just talking to people on here. Try to distract yourself and try not to get hungover on the break-up, just accept that the relationship didn't work out and try your best to move on. Try to get some excercise instead of laying around, although this is probably all you feel like doing. Go for a walk outside in the fresh air. It's proven that most people think your heart will take forever… Czytaj więcej »

Alex
Alex
50 lat temu

i just went through the same thing and i am only 13……. :'( i cant handle it i am way too young and i can physicaly feel my heart breaking peice by peice. my boyfriend broke up with me 2 nights ago and i will never forget it because despite my young age i really think i truly did love him and he told me he would never let me go and that he would fight for me if he lost me then all of a sudden he breaks up with me for this girl named olivia :'( i just… Czytaj więcej »

princy
princy
50 lat temu

hey..

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Thanks

I Like Lime Candies
I Like Lime Candies
50 lat temu

Try to keep yourself busy/go out with friends as often as possible. Doing stuff will keep your mind off what happened. And you never know, you might meet someone new while going out 😉

salmankh
salmankh
50 lat temu

try to make urself busy.

go to gym and work-out.

go out on dates.

dont eat much coz it will make u sad and fat.

SwimIsAwesome =]
SwimIsAwesome =]
50 lat temu

the only way fix it is to flush it all away

♥Kumiko Meigu
♥Kumiko Meigu
50 lat temu

Try to understand why you are upset. Understand that everything happens for a reason. What exact moment did you feel upset? Don't think about whose fault it was- at one time or another, everyone makes mistakes. Don't worry about it. Do something quiet and relaxing to help you feel better. Maybe you want to take a hot bath, or meditate, or read a book. That's fine. In an hour, or two, or whenever you're ready, start thinking about whether you are ready to accept the other person's feelings. If you are, go ahead, call them, write them a note, or… Czytaj więcej »

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Lollypop lollypop oh
50 lat temu

First, let me start out by saying that this man was not the man of your dreams. The man of your dreams would never leave you, would never seriously hurt you, and would treat you like the woman you deserve to be treated as. Once you open up to that idea you'll come to realize that the man of your dreams is still out there and is waiting for you. It sounds cheesy but remember when one door closes another one opens. How was the real man of your dreams supposed to find you if you were with someone else… Czytaj więcej »

Chris
Chris
50 lat temu

I am 19 years old, an age that many might consider too young to have experienced real heartbreak. But I assure you, I have felt the same pain. I dated a girl for 3 years who I could have happily grown old with; I felt content with the idea of never so much as looking a another girl. We were happily planning on a marriage at 25. But things fell apart when she moved, and when it was finally ended, I wanted nothing but to lay in bed and cry all day. She was everything. It seems like everything you… Czytaj więcej »

lovelysm
lovelysm
50 lat temu

well, why aren't you with him. if he is your half, you will never be complete. sometimes the woman has to humble herself and become like the Queen of Cups–generous, emotional, loving, giving, mothering, forgiving, understanding, feminine, receptive, communicative. Do you know, that is what makes a man fall to his knees? You better think about this? What is better, swallow your pride and fall to your knees or lose him? I promise you, the man ain't gonna do all that? But, he will surely pass you by for the woman who will.

Alowishu
Alowishu
50 lat temu

WOW if you have a hole on your heart i would strongly recommend seeing a doctor

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